It is very nice & neighborly to ask for suggestions on how to handle
drumming next door.

In addition to the great ideas offered, just wanted to add a perspective
from observing some of the positive aspects of music in our
family/community. Our son is off at college now so he is mostly away, but
he has been playing in our basement for years. Our loving neighbors have
been wonderful about it. He gave his cell phone number to them so that they
could call him any time the noise was too loud or ill timed. That was to
give them volume & timing control. For example, if one of your little ones
is home sick, a band playing next door is not a good idea, even if it is
still early. They were tremendously supportive of him learning to play.

Through high school it made a huge difference that he and his friends were
at home writing songs about social change and practicing music. As a
parent, it is much better for one's child to play music at home than hang at
the Metro stop or the "mall." Granted, they are noisy, but they formed
strong bonds as friends, learned how to work together as a band, ate
healthier snacks and in addition to working hard at their music, they are
all active in community service. Playing music, even drums, can have an
upside. Besides it takes more than once-a-week practice at school to become
a musician or singer. I, for one, would welcome more people in our
neighborhood taking up an instrument. So thankful that you are striving to
be gentle!

Thanks,

Kate

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